Finally, I got some!
Yep, I got it alright!
And, it’s not what you’re thinking!
I got hate mail!
Yeah, me, can you believe it!
Via email!
I read it, reread it, then read a third time.
I let the words sink in and yes, they bothered me.
It was basically a 10 sentence rant that could have been summed up into 3 words… “go to hell”!
There was so much thought and structure put into this email, that I felt it deserved some air time.
Now, I’m not going to go into the why’s or break down this scathing letter, but I do want to talk about the power of fan letters.
You see, when we receive a fan letter in most cases it’s a warm and fuzzy, feel good, make your head swell with accomplishment that we want to show the world and tell them how we made someones day. It fills us up with joy-joy happy feelings. We use it to re-energize our passions for our business.
Then, it happens! You receive 1 piece of hate mail! And those hundreds of “I love you” letters turn to mush. Or do they?
You see, I could reply back and defend my case and allow my words to fuel the fire that is eating at this poor soul, or try to communicate in some fashion and hope to restore some sense of friendship…or simply dismiss it.
Here’s what Ron Krauch owner of Emerald Estates Realty Inc out of Baltimore Maryland does… “When I get an angry complainer, I ask, “Is there more?” You can’t communicate until they get all the anger out”.
I suppose I could do that.
Maybe even delete it!
I printed it out!
I taped it to my office wall.
I’m using it!
I’m using it to fuel my desire to improve my services.
Fan mail tells you how you’re business is doing, hate mail tells you how to improve your business.
“I love hate mail…it means you’re going in your direction not the world’s!”, explains Kim Stevens Shahan of KimShahan.com
Now, I’m not saying purposely go out on a limb to screw with people, just so you can get some hate mail.
Seriously,words are very powerful, they can be used to build or destroy!
Don’t let someone’s bitterment towards you destroy your passion. Take the words that people write and use them to build a more powerful you.
Always move forward!
Until Next Time,
“Live With Passion!”
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